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48 Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
I'm an independent man, looking for a connection with an open-minded woman. I believe that self-discipline is the way to genuine freedom. I am humble; I've made many mistakes in my life, but always seek to be a little better each day, especially in my interaction with others. I'm a good communicator, patient, kind, and caring. Let's chat, and see if a spark can lead to fire. Interests include: 🌵 Cactus growing 🏹 Stoicism (Ancient Greek and Roman philosophy) ✴️ Psychosynthesis and personal development ☀️ Life coaching 💖 Positive psychology 🦋 Nature 🥾 Hiking and day walks ⛓️ And what goes on behind closed doors... VIA Character Strengths Profile (My top 10 character strengths) 1. Humor (TRANSCENDENCE) - Liking to laugh and tease; bringing smiles to other people; seeing the light side; making (not necessarily telling) jokes. 2. Spirituality (TRANSCENDENCE) - Having coherent beliefs about the higher purpose and meaning of the universe; knowing where one fits within the larger scheme; having beliefs about the meaning of life that shape conduct and provide comfort. 3. Judgment (WISDOM) - Thinking things through and examining them from all sides; not jumping to conclusions; being able to change one's mind in light of evidence; weighing all evidence fairly. 4. Curiosity - (WISDOM) - Taking an interest in ongoing experience for its own sake; finding subjects and topics fascinating; exploring and discovering. 5. Love of Learning (WISDOM) - Mastering new skills, topics, and bodies of knowledge, whether on one's own or formally; related to the strength of curiosity but goes beyond it to describe the tendency to add systematically to what one knows. 6. Perspective (WISDOM) - Being able to provide wise counsel to others; having ways of looking at the world that make sense to oneself/others. 7. Creativity (WISDOM) - Thinking of novel and productive ways to conceptualize and do things; includes artistic achievement but is not limited to it. 8. Kindness (HUMANITY) - Doing favors and good deeds for others; helping them; taking care of them. 9. Appreciation of Beauty & Excellence (TRANSCENDENCE) - Noticing and appreciating beauty, excellence, and/or skilled performance in various domains of life, from nature to art to mathematics to science to everyday experience. 10. Social Intelligence (HUMANITY) - Being aware of the motives/feelings of others and oneself; knowing what to do to fit into different social situations; knowing what makes other people tick.