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james

65 • Gore, Southland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 44 - 55

Im a happy person, but have been let down by others. Trust is very important to me. Im quite outgoing, and confident in most circles. Im a down to earth person, Im loyal and like to think I behave like a gentleman, Im an old fashioned sort of guy. I have a real sense of humour and like to laugh, I dont let everyday things get me down, better to just laugh them off!! Iv been in New Zealand 20 years. Im very lucky to be well travelled and have been and lived in many parts of the world. I spent many years in the Military so I am well disciplined in myself and my work. I keep my home and surrounding's clean and tidy and well organized. Iv been back in New Zealand 4 years after three years in SE Asia. I work most days, not because I have to, but there's not a great deal to do living on the South Island of NZ and I dont like sitting around. LOL. Im healthy in body and mind with no bad habits, financially secure.the latest photo of me in my garden was taken 01.01 2026 😁 yes it’s the same T shirt , ex military ones so I have plenty 😁😁😁 photo taken in black T shirt 8th Jan 2026

SALMAN

40 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 25 - 40

Live and let live .

Hi i live in new zeland , spend most of my time in asia i am in the business to manafacture beverages , I love news , movies , travel to many countries , music , dance , , staying fit , research I love nature and adventure sports I like philosophy to read and write I am easy going , and believe in sharing mutual respect. I seek a companion who loves life like me ,

Brian

52 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 49

please read before contacting!

If I just added you to my favourites please don't be afraid. I don't bite much. Please note that I am interested in relationship/marriage - please send me the message if you think you're into someone like me or brave enough to try!: . That way I know you're cool about who I am :) Open friendly girls only please.

Gary

58 • Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

PROTECTIVE LION

Attractive and active fun loving male. I like to stay in shape and have a natually ahtletic physique. I can be a bit of a homebody in our cold New Zealand winters (good excuse to curl up in front of the fire with someone special) but being a Leo I love the sun and love to get out in summer and soak it up ! I have two gorgeous little girls who I just adore and I have in my care part time. When they are not with me and I'm missing them I like to shop for them, but don't worry, I'm all man ;-)

Robert Shayne

59 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 36 - 68

On here looking for a good, honest partner.

I am 59-year-old, I have been forced into retirement after 38 years as a caregiver. I have got a very high IQ 170, I have been to medical school, and law school. I also have a testosterone injections every month. So I have got a higher sex drive than other men of my age. I am a unique person.

Alan

62 • Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 35 - 58

Life is too short

I am a hard working man looking to share his love with a woman who is seeking the same in a partner. I am an easy going, friendly person who is a good listener and a rock to anchor to for the right person. I enjoy travelling either at home or around

Brent

66 • Gisborne, Gisborne, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 39 - 67

Looking for Love and marriage

I'm a quiet soft kind caring man I'm a very tender passionate loving man I'm a one woman man I'm not much of a drinker I like the simple thing in life Will want my lady to always hold my hand when out together Walks along the beach Will enjoy a loving sexual relationshipi want a loving wife

Jona

59 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 30 - 50

Looking for Marriage & Love

Smart sharp loving caring but no fool... I like Different cultures and I learn and read all the time. Well traveled I grab the bull by it's horns ! Have goals and purpose in life, focus can move mountain if I put my mind to it. very spiritual and min

Aaron

46 • Gisborne, Gisborne, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 44

Passion

I'm your average kiwi bloke who likes to be romantic. Ill be supportive in what ever path or venture you take on honest and someone you can count on. I'm looking for someone who wants the same, I like pleasuring or-al-ly and why I'm telling yous my sxxxal secrets is that some of yous may not be that way inclined respectfully

Orient

60 • Rotorua, Bay of Plenty, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 32 - 51

Moving on

Crazy busy, Travel frequently, separated for over a year moving on - Musician, Professional artist, Classic car and motorcycle enthusiast mature - good sense of humor, fit and active, Missing sentient female conversation and companionship Fol

Zaheer

38 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 19 - 36

Cool and stable

Hi, my name is Zaheer. I am IT graduate and work as Software Engineer/Technical Consultant/Architect in New Zealand from last 10 years. I am a very active & ambitious person, I like going gym, watching movies and talking to new people. I also lik

Scott

42 • Grafton, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

Beach lover and world explorer

Hi, I’m Scott—a New Zealander who’s faced life’s challenges head-on and come out stronger, with a clear sense of who I am. I’m a real estate business owner and ex-police officer, passionate about helping people find more than just a home, but a place where they belong. When I’m not working, you’ll find me hiking rugged trails, swimming at my favourite surf beaches, or on the golf course. I’ve played rugby across the world, wandered through Africa, and found a deep connection with Asia, especially China, Japan, Vietnam, and Thailand. I love good food, great music, and the kind of adventures you don’t plan for. I’m looking for someone genuine, honest, curious, and ready to discover what life has to offer—with a few surprises along the way.

Russell

57 • Tauranga, Bay of Plenty, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 25

In need of a good woman

I am neither rich nor poor, good nor bad, I am just an ordinary guy trying to keep life together before the insanity of the world takes over! I enjoy a quiet life and prefer the outdoors and nature and wildlife. My job is to drive a truck...I am not a socialite or busybody...I do know what I like and don't like!

I will call you..

52 • Invercargill, Southland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 30 - 40

seriously single, please, no bending around this!...

please, no games as life is to short, im real and i expect you to be, first chat will be a videocall! All I want is REAL woman..where are the beautiful hearts..I'm right here waiting..chat to me..i am so beaten down by fakes, the decievers, the lies..where are the real woman? The loving honest, caring real woman? I keep looking but finding nothing but a sea of shallow people..Black hearted souls ..eating away at the light of good men.

Allan

64 • Kaiapoi, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 45 - 65

Friendship honesty and see what happens

Im afull time truck driver doing about 50 to 60 hrs aweek I live with 1 of my sons who is 33yrs old and will not be leaving home We both enjoy time off Have travelled Hate computers Enjoy gardening watching sport lego jigsaws and having a beer to chill out

MrYoso

33 • Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 20 - 30

Could you please! help me to find my queen👸🏻🙏

I really don’t know my character at the moment, Honestly Im in the dark place thats why Im looking for a light that can guide me and take caring of me and I will not just swear but I will do my best to make sure that she never regret to giving me a l

Roy

69 • Katikati, Bay of Plenty, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 37 - 57

farmer

I have retired from farming , i still own and live on my farm , its in hibernation . (resting) I'm a down to earth guy . prefer to wear jeans and tee shirts . Lived alone for 10 years . Laid back . love nature , trees , rivers , the beach ... Please dont bother me if you are under 45 . prefer someome one who wants to live in New Zealand . I'm too old for the heat in Thailand and too old to learn a new Language . I'm a jeans and tee man .

peter

58 • Manukau City, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 24 - 55

some one to love

I am a singe happy and sincere male looking for someone to share my life with. To make each other happy and to be loved i am a project manger in building and construction. I love the outdoors and nature am into surfing . love to take walks along the beach also am into motor racing love the garden and grow lot of things

Alessandro

60 • Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 32 - 45

My pleasure to meet youuuu

Simple man, hard-working ,respectful, responsible, Good manners , I like to laugh - joke ,I like physical exercise -martial arts ,no matter what always trying to be positive not worry too much about things because I always believe that till we are alive and healthy we can certainly find a solution for good things to happen with the help of God

Langi

43 • Manukau City, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 20 - 50

My names is Langi, 42 years old looking for a wife

My name is Langi I'm 42 years old I live in New Zealand I'm attracted to Asian lady I love listening to music,love outdoor ,Gym,sport a'd have a few drink with mate after long week of work, so I'm looking for a long relionship and maybe one day will be my wife..

Marama

42 • Gisborne, Gisborne, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 40 - 45

The least you can be is genuine,scammers stay out!

Laid back as as a typical NZ lad is, if you wish to drop by have a banter or 2 i am cool with that for the mean time i don't mind making friends on here especially since i am foraging abit far from homeland to match with the one person i want to settle down with, hoping that what you read here appeals to you and then we kick off from there so cheers for reading have a great day 😊

Jack

48 • Hastings, Hawke's Bay, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 28 - 44

Привет, как дела?

I'm caring, kind, loyal and intelligent, always looking to expand my knowledge and explore my interests more fully. I enjoy sport, nature and appreciate the smaller things in life. I love my country, its paradise, but I'd also like to see more of the wonderful world we live in. I would like someone to share the good times with.

Paul

61 • Waitakere, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 33 - 61

Looking for love and equal partner in life

Positive outlook on life. I wish to share with the right partner. I am quite fine looking after myself and financially secure. Have great job and loving dog who shares my house with me. Have had two great children I adore and visit weekly when able to do so. I am older and wiser and guess know what's important in life for me.

Dean

62 • Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 37 - 52

Please read my profile ,no scammers please

I live by the sea and love boating ,diving, jetsking and walking on the beach. I’m honest and faithful with integrity I have travelled a lot throughout the world & Asia with my work. I love animals , I'm positive with a understanding caring nature.

Grant

55 • Dunedin, Otago, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

Hi my name is grant a big Teddy bear looking 4 ❤

Non smoker. Non drinker. Easy going guy. Big and strong with a kind heart. Prefer the simple things in life. Affection and loyalty are very important to me. Iv traveled the world. Been there done that. Am back home my beautiful new Zealand to stay and settle down looking for that someone special to fall in love with and spen the rest of our lives together. I know your out there, I will keep looking until I find You. I enjoy fishing, swimming, walking, cooking.. Well other peoples cooking as my cooking is terrible. I absolutely love asian food.. I love the outdoors, I do amateur photography. I can be clingy sometimes, I find silly things very funny and I laugh a lot. I'm not ritch so if your looking for a sugar daddy I'm not for you. I retire in 7 more years and plan to buy a little land on the west coast and live a very simple but happy life in forest. I'm not into bars or clubs but really enjoy nature and walks and a little amateur photography. I enjoy holding hands and I give big strong hugs. I'm a one women man and don't play games and hate drama. I will always have my ladies back and be your emotional support on your bad days.

Michael

40 • Greymouth, West Coast, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 24 - 33

Hello :)

I'm building an off grid home in a beautiful piece of west coast bush. I live a quiet life in small town New Zealand. I'm super introverted and chill, It's an amazing place I'm starting from but doing it all alone and for myself just doesn't feel right. I don't live an exciting life, I just want to homebody, build a sweet off grid self sustaining home, have lots of Animals. It's private and secure, places to grow food and about 10 mins from a town. I'm not rich but I want to build a happy life. 42 years old never married and no kids, i'm running out of time for fatherhood but still open if the right woman comes along in time. Good luck wonderful people, by the way if your profile is empty I probably won't reply

Harana

44 • Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 36 - 40

Looking for a relationship with a successful & lov...

I live a pretty simple life if I’m not working Or with my kids I’m definitely at the gym. I like to unplug from the world at night by watching tv/movies anime. I like cooking as well my favourite would be anything bbq. As for relaxing I like going to a hot springs and distress and or spa/sauna and steam room especially after an intense session at the gym.

Mike

33 • Tauranga, Bay of Plenty, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 38

teach me your language

I find joy in the little the things, like a great cup of green tea since i don't drink coffee, a sunrise hike, or the perfect sunset. By day, I'm a Renovator with Goals, but by night, I'm a foodie on a quest for the best foods. 📚 I'm a firm believer in lifelong learning and can often be found buried in Reading something Random or trying to learn a new language on my own. I love good stories too and will take it in the form of movies, tv series, games, Anime or Something Readable, and I never miss a chance to discuss the latest plot twist with others even when they aren't interested. 🏋‍♂️ I love Working out and taking care of my health and can often find myself getting too ahead of myself when talking about it. I have really been slack though for the past year and I'm mentioning this because I want to make myself accountable again to get back to what I love doing. 🐶🐱 I will be best friends with your Animals. I love Animals and have owned cats and dogs 🎶 Music is my therapy, and I love attending live shows or singing loudly in the car even though i can't sing or get the lyrics right. I value kindness towards others, a good sense of humor, and meaningful connections. If you're looking for someone to share life's adventures, from impromptu road trips to cozy nights in with a board game or a movie I'm Also trying to learn How to play Guitar. Don't ask me to play because I still don't know how to.

Scott

47 • Te Anau, Southland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 34 - 43

Someone serious. Not from africa

I love the outdoors. Hiking, fishing, diving or riding bikes. In the winter I like snowboarding or skiing. I love camping and eating food I can gather from the sea. I have a close relationship to my parents and siblings. There children are also a part of my life. I have been single for 4 years as that's what I chose. Now I feel ready to meet someone I can hopefully build a life with.

Ivan

57 • Nelson, Nelson, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 38 - 50

Hi am honest , respectful and just simple not rich not poor just living a gd life and love to have a lady by my side , just looking for a great personality honest faithful lady not to serious about material things and likes to smile thanks☺️ ❤️

Jason

48 • Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 27 - 45

I confess my treasures in heaven every single day

I ask you Lord Jesus Christ to make for me in heaven the most beautiful yellow diamond studded palace made of pure gold embedded with yellow diamond to be my home in heaven created and designed by the Creator of all things in heaven and earth. Thank

P

57 • Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 31 - 60

Funny Kiwi

I'm an easy-going guy. I'm looking for someone that just loves me for who I am. I'm not a complicated person. I like to have fun but I'm also a serious person. I'm kinda shy but once I know you then I'm opposite. I love to laugh at myself. I don't know what else to say because I've never joined a site like this before. That's all.

Phil

56 • Orewa, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 32 - 51

Hello I'm not a Prince but I'm also not a frog 🙃

Looking good ladies 😃 I have been divorced 3 years 3 months ago after my wife left me for another man ago after 19 years marriage. So i have been unavailable for a very long time. I've recently purchased a three bedroom house where I live with my 20 year old son so I won't be traveling this year but your more than welcome to visit me in Auckland New Zealand. I'm caring easy going honest romantic sociable cancerian with a sense of humour. I am very disappointed with these dating sites as nobody wants to leave them so be the exception and trust me😃

Ralph

55 • Taumarunui, Manawatu-Wanganui, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 20 - 40

Ready For Love

Kind, gentle, loving. I am outgoing with a good sense of humor. I enjoy exercise, walks, movies, restaurants, cafe, travelling, beach,. swimming, gardening, reading, history. Please if you going to talk, then talk. Don't say hello and run away

Nick

62 • North Shore, Auckland, New Zealand

Seeking: Female 18 - 54

life is about love and care

I'm honest, simple but smart, fun loving adventures, physically and mentally much younger than my biological age. I live a peaceful, active and healthy lifestyle, I'm well educated, travelled, experienced but always learning and growing with an open mind. I work mostly 3 days a week as a dental technician and live in my own house in Hobsonville. Looking for companionship and friendship first to build a permanent life partnership to share the joys and challenges of life, I enjoy nature, reading, cooking, meditation, yoga, movies, music, food, drink and above all romantic and intimate times that you open your heart with full trust and feeling safe. I'm a NZ citizen, immigrated to NZ 27 years ago from the Middle East. English is not my first language. I still have an accent :)

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