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Nmachinyere
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42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 38 - 60
Creative Soul | IT Enthusiast | Adventure Seeker
Hey there! I'm Sandra, an administrator with a talent for IT support and a passion for unleashing creativity. I thrive in the realm of business development, mastering technology systems, and crafting captivating social media content. I also have the amazing opportunity to teach in a children's church, and it brings me so much joy!
iris
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42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 45 - 60
Love, Laughter, and a Little Bit of Gospel.
"Hello! I'm Iris, a curious and creative soul who's always learning, growing, and exploring. I find joy in quiet moments, meaningful conversations, and the beauty of everyday life. I'm looking for someone who values depth, empathy, and authenticity. If you're a fellow seeker of truth, a listener, and a thinker, let's connect and see where the journey takes us. I'm excited to meet someone who is genuine, supportive, and always up for exploring new ideas, trying new things, and laughing together. If you're looking for a partner who will walk alongside you, listen deeply, and encourage your dreams, let's take a step forward together."
Opeyemi
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45
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 55
Meaningful long term relationship only please
I am a kind, empathetic and intelligent woman that will support you to fulfil your potential and make impact whilst doing same. I love taking long walks to keep fit, watching movies and work smart & hard (still hoping for that big lottery win) 😊 I am single, never married and don't have children.....here to meet someone for a meaningful relationship.
Tina
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41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 45 - 99
Lonely and searching for Love
I am a Nigerian, a single mother of one boy, life in the country capital Abuja, a Christian, none smoker, very playful, a few extra pounds, (working on shading some weight though lol) I am 100% single, and need a man in my life, I wish to feel that butterfly in my belle kind of thing 😀, no jokers or time wasters, if you have gone through my profile and feel I match your kind of woman, hit my DM.. waiting for my heart owner to find me soon.💋💋💋
Vivian
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Verified
42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 47 - 80
I believe love is still real… and worth finding.
I’m someone who enjoys the simple things in life—peace, laughter, and good conversations that actually mean something. I’m naturally caring, supportive, and I love making the people around me feel comfortable and appreciated. I’m big on growth, both personally and emotionally, and I try to live my life with intention. I can be playful, calm, and deep depending on the moment. I enjoy learning new things, exploring different cultures, and just creating beautiful memories. I’m not perfect, but I’m genuine. And I believe the right connection should feel easy, safe, and real.
sally
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44
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 39 - 70
I'm a kind hearted woman with some much love to gi
I'm easy going calm cool introverted but very loving l love to cooking during my off days go shopping and stuff up my kitchen with food stuff,I also love reading watching romantic movies ,,I like nature taking a walk by the sea side and have a roman
Ruth
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Verified
43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 38 - 45
Exploring Connections: Let's Share the Journey.
Adventurous spirit with a passion for exploring both the outdoors and intellectual landscapes. A lover of good conversation, I thrive on connecting over shared interests, whether it's delving into the pages of a novel or embarking on spontaneous road
Ify
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45
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 43 - 60
A loving daughter of Zion
Hello, I'm Ify, a hard-working single mom dedicated to providing a loving and nurturing environment for my 9-year-old daughter. I find strength and joy in worshipping God, and it plays a significant role in my life. I am committed to balancing my res
Julia
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Verified
41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 35 - 60
Read before you send interest
I am a Sapiosexual,looks are not just enough. Be able to have a meaningful conversation, I am not interested in your nudes and won't send any. I am here for mature men that knows how to treat a woman and family oriented that knows how to have fun and relax and playful. Hey I am a Nigerian and if you have a problem with that go hug a transformer.
Mercy
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48
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 41 - 60
Mercy Ebere
Am a very friendly person full of social life style and in love with the things of God. I love singing and dancing. Am a gospel singer I've been in an abusive marriage previously. Now I'm a single lady looking for geniue love and ready to settle
Zira
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41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 47 - 62
Give me a reason to exit this site.
family oriented person, i love good conversations, music, photography, interior decor and always ready to learn something new. love to travel and i have a joyful soul 😊 . I'm here for a meaningful relationship, no games!! please note: video call is a must, and please be sure you speak English.
Grace
Standard Member
49
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 43 - 55
I believe in true love There is a man out there
I m just beginning to enjoy life Please no fake/no gawking,/ no asking for nudes because you won't get it ,I m not just b*obs and b*mb*m,I am intelligent too, I m not here for fun and games, Just looking out for my ride and ride partner I m a trust worthy person and I can commit myself to you if you trust me SO IF you are in with me,let's roll!!! Buddies for life Maybe along the way we invent things too. PLEASE if you are seeking to just play or request nude pictures or show me body parts,kindly move along, real men dont do such.👦 BOYS 👦 STAY AWAY!!!
Debbie
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41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 58
Compassionate heart seeking for a loving connectio
I am down to earth, honest ,caring , ambitious and adventurous. I am fun to be with. I am a cheerful lover, I am here for a decent and life changing partner, honesty is my watch word please if you can't be , don't bother. I have a good height , am beautiful, endowed and intelligent, I don't discriminate , distance for me is no barrier if the heart is willing.
Gift
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 36 - 45
Seeking friends, since most people are home now.
My family and friends say that I am a breath of fresh air, loving, kind and honest. I am all of those but also very feisty, like Jerry (in the Tom and Jerry cartoon) I guess it's the default setting of us little folk. Children are very important to me. I always thought that I would have at least seven (like the Von Trapp family) so that we could sing all day long, but life happened and I have a terrible singing voice. I still see a child or two in my future. I love extreme sports like skydiving and scuba diving and might try them someday, if I can conquer my fear of flying and learn to swim. I know how to cook but it's not my hobby. I hardly ever wake up with the thought of food on my mind. My Christian faith is very important to me. I am not claiming to be an angel, because I stray sometimes; but there is a calm that comes with knowing that God is always there for you, and it has been manifested in my life countless times. I am like a book in progress, there is so much to read and so much to be written. Change isn't something that scares me.
Chidiebere
Standard Member
43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 50 - 75
Phenomenal and genuine. I AM NOT FOR UNSERIOUS MEN
I am responsible, romantic and ready for long lasting relationship. So if you are not ready for a good relationship pls don't contact me
LAUREN
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43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 65
THERE'S NO ME WITHOUT GOD!
I'm kind, generous, faithful , loyal, honest, respectful n RELIABLE. Beautiful faces don't impress me but a beautiful HEART does.... I'm Single, never been married before n no kids but Love them alot. I Don't drink, smoke, no Drugs n no Crime whatsoever. No piercings, no tattoos but it's okay if you have them. I'm helplessly Romantic...l Love to kiss, hugs, cuddle n hold hands. l Love the outdoors, I'm adventurous n would love to see the world with You ❤️ I'm the BEST of my KIND. A woman you can TRUST. I'm a one Man Woman, my Man should be my First n Best Friend .....My Love language is spending quality times together n Gifts Please, I'm not looking to select Dicks, no Nudes haunters, n No time wasters. When you find someone who accepts you for who you are, that's HOME❤️❤️❤️ I've Natural Big BOOBs ( A sign of my Big Heart) WHEN YOU GO BLACK YOU don't GO BACK!!! . You must have a clean mouth, smell nice cos hugging n kissing you a MlLLION times everyday won't be a bad idea right? LoL....😜 I LOVE hard. Looking forward to Loving you like my whole Life depends on it... I'M A CHRISTIAN, NOT NEGOTIABLE!!! I'm Not here for meaningless chats, Not interested in chatting Mates. Thank you 😊
Freda
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 32 - 55
God is able
I'm good, Godly, creative, hard working, passionate to help people, lovely, kind, willing to forgive, joyful, optimist, emotional, romantic, patience, i dislike injustice, dislike lies, positive in all my doing, trustworthy, integrity, caring and i'm stereotype
Helen
Standard Member
42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 60
Goal driven, love the LORD! Caring, humble, family
I’m the ‘girl next door, mixed with the “one you take home to meet Mama; and I’m ready to meet the man GOD made for me! I love dancing, traveling, staying physically fit and I’m also a great cook! I’m a great girl who knows her worth, and values friendship and loyalty.
jennifer
Standard Member
43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 39 - 42
I m here to meet somebody for a real relationship.
i love meeting new friends!! I don't copy people I m who I m....a single Lady no kids I don't like double dating... One guy is enough for me I do things with the fear of God....I like to keep to my words....anytime any day....I wan to meet someone for a serious relationship not games please no scammers!! If you don't want a relationship no need of faking people here please!! I joined this site for good....not for evil 🤷
Taiwo
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 39 - 49
Don't send me message if you can't do video call
My name is Taiwo i’m from Nigeria I am a fashion designer/stylist I love to wear good clothes. I am single never been married before and I don't have kids as well... I am on this site for a long term relationship that will lead to marriage... I love kids and I will wants to have one or two kids if you are not in for a long term relationship please ignore my profile and move on to the next person
Desire
Standard Member
46
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 46 - 66
Proud African woman with a love for culture.
Proud African woman with a love for culture, family, and meaningful connections. I’m independent, warm-hearted, and adventurous—whether it’s exploring new places, trying delicious dishes, or enjoying quiet moments with a good book or music. I value h
Ifeoma
Standard Member
43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 45 - 70
seeking peaceful caring loving and honest husband
Am a simple calm and easy going person, honesty is my watchword,,Am sociable,love cooking, traveling, swimming and watching movies,I love fashion, I can adapt in any giving situation and environment ,and I love experimenting new and good ideas
Delphine
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41
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 69
I am 40 years lady from Nigeria base in the city of Abuja, I am from a family of 3, two elder brothers and me as the only girl child and the last child of my mother, I am also a graduate of Federal University of Technology Yola, I have a B.Tech in Ma
Obianuju
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43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 42 - 63
Faith-Led Entrepreneur | Lover of God
Faith-Led Entrepreneur | Lover of God | Business-Minded | Good Vibes & Deep Conversations... I am a visionary woman who loves God and leads with purpose. Emotionally intelligent, deep, and discerning. A nurturer with a builder’s mindset — I uplift, i
Onyinye
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 35 - 65
Looking for Someone Real to Share Life’s Adventure...
I am a spontaneous adult, resilient,God fearing, passionate and a bit stubborn. Three amazing souls call me mum.I embrace life with laughter,gratitude,faith in God,discipline and self-love. I value g deep connection. I reciprocate the vibes that i g
Angela
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 40 - 68
Pls read my profile before coming unto me, fill in...
The woman you see here is the result of dedication, discipline, and faith in the name of the lord Christ jesus. I am proud of the person I’ve become—a straightforward, one-man woman who loves and worships Christ. I know who I am and what I want in life. If you’re here for casual intentions or just to fulfill a sexual fantasy, I respectfully ask you to skip my profile. Let’s not waste your time or mine. I value traditional relationships built on peace, unity, and responsibility. I believe that relationships thrive when two people are intentional, grounded in mutual respect, understanding, and commitment. I’m looking for something real and lasting, and I expect the same from anyone reaching out to me. I enjoy going out and having fun, but always in ways that align with my values. Taking care of my body, soul, and spirit is a priority for me, and I engage in activities that help me stay strong, balanced, and fulfilled. If we choose to connect outside this platform, I prefer meaningful conversations, thoughtful chats, and video calls. Regarding my photos—yes, the afro is 100% me, natural and authentic. If you believe we align, I’d be happy to hear from you. Lastly, my faith is at the core of who I am. If worshiping Christ together would be a challenge for you, I kindly ask you to move on. My relationship with God is non-negotiable. Thank you for taking the time to read this. May God bless you as you search for what is right for you. A reminder of what to read this period, My new adventurous book on Amazon (THE PIECES I CARRY)
Angela
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 36 - 65
Read my profile 🙏
Alot of work was put for u to see me look like this at my age and I expect anyone looking at my direction to know that am a straight forward person, a one man woman, a disciplined woman, I love and worships Christ but am not dumb not to know what I want, iam traditional in the way relationship works, (a man has to take care of his woman) if you're a submissive man and needs a bossy lady on here afro, so sorry am not for you, I believe in the peace and unity of two responsible consenting individuals who come together with an intentional mindset of how relationships genuinely works. And Please I don't mean to divert, but if you know you don't worship Christ pls skip my profile. I love mutual respect and understanding, commitment, I kind of need same energy here. am out going, yeah! I loosen up ones in a while to have fun but not to do illegality, I love exercises of my body soul and spirit to keep me going. If you know that youre not properly healed from the hurt of your past relationships or you're self centered, disrespectful to the woman or a Narcististic pls it's not tolerated here pls!! If am gonna add you on WhatsApp after much knowing on here please it is for video calls and chats pls, don't come on the first meet on WhatsApp and demand for my pics, all the pics on here afro is me 100% , so pls look at them well thanks so much
Tessy
Standard Member
Verified
42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 38 - 49
I am Simply and not perfect and not here for games
You may describe me as ugly, fat, short, With a flat nose and tiny legs, obese, whatever you may think of. But please dont judge me from the outside and from afar. I don't have to paint the whole picture that I am the best! No one is. I don't have to give you the impression that am all what you think of, and at the tail end you get disappointed. We all judge differently. No one truly knows who he/she is that's why you need a mirror. Get to know me first, who knows we may end up being compatible. I am me, my own version, a true beauty that comes from the inside where the heart is made of Gold. If you wish to know me better just try. Most of all I believe in God the Almighty ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊☺☺☺☺☺☺☺ N/B With due respect I am so begging you to please dont send naked pictures to me and please don't pull your pant on me while on a video chat and no phone sex. I am not interested in nakedness and please don't ask for mine either. If you end up showing all the people you come across your nakedness of what will you make of it. I believe your nakedness should be seen only by your spouse. You should at least give your future spouse that respect by starting today. I Hope I'm making sense! Thank you.
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Nkechi
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45
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 45 - 65
ihuomma
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43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 44 - 55
Am ihuoma
Am 43 years from Nigeria, a graduate of business Adiministration and management
Yetunde
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43
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 38 - 57
Someone who will ❤️ me
Gentle and loving
Ibrahim
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44
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 50 - 60
Mercy
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49
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 53 - 65
Oluwafunke
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42
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 41 - 59
Helen
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47
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Abuja, Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria
Seeking:
Male 46 - 64
Helen
I'm a Banker, I'm a loving, caring, God fearing, a Christian, family oriented, love kids, honest person. I love honesty
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