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Tony
67 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 62
Henry slayton
41 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 47 - 75
Emanic
28 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Joyce
39 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 93
Kameron
26 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 36
Ian
36 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 28
suff
62 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 66
Rich
39 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 38
chris
59 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
brown
50 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Hi there! I'm quite rusty at this and am dipping my toes back into the water after a long time out of the pool. I 'm looking to see who's out there, who I might click with and maybe make a few friends or perhaps, if Gods' timing is right (and it's always right), a deeper, long term partnership with my missing piece.I am 53 years old widow for 15 years now,single father dad from Uk mum from Canada In the last 5 years, I wrestled with some of the hardest choices I've ever made.I managed to deeply wound myself and others that I love with my choices, and have been learning how to just be myself again and live apart. "We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize that we only have one" - Confucius The Japanese art of kintsugi, meaning “to join with gold”, is a reminder to stay optimistic when things fall apart and to celebrate the flaws and missteps of life. The technique is an extension of the Japanese philosophy of wabi-sabi, which sees beauty in the incomplete and value in simplicity. God is the artisan of the universe. He can take what is broken, make the pieces realign and then He heals the cracks with an inlay of liquid gold. That's how I see my life and my future. I have been damaged, through reckless actions and pride, and now I am awaiting my restoration. He will work on me and transform my sadness, my loneliness and my loss into a new piece of exquisite art, unique and irreplaceable. I will not look the same but I will be a reflection of His incredible grace and capacity to restore what has been broken. I see myself as flawed, broken and thoroughly human but I refuse to let my past define and limit my future. I'm about to embark upon my "second life", trying answer the questions posed by my first. Will I make the same mistakes or can God change me as He promises He can? I've been in and out of church most of my adult life and I'm certainly no saint but I believe I am redeemed by His indescribable grace and love. I love God but have a hard time sometimes believing He feels the same way about me. My intention is to extract every last ounce of revelation, joy, wisdom, contentment, experience, compassion, love, learning, exploration and service out of whatever remains. I will walk again with Christ and, if His grace allows, with a woman who loves me deeply, passionately and unconditionally. If we fall down, we'll rise again as one and keep moving forward toward His perfection, with grace, gratitude, and fear. Now, if you've read this far, I'm very flattered but you see, there's a catch. At first meeting, I may seem funny, courteous, loving, thoughtful and kind (and I am all of those things) but I'm also autistic. I received my Asperger's diagnosis about 10 years ago during a very difficult episode in my life, which finally explained a lot of things in my past and who I am. I'm regarded as ASD Level 1 or HFA (high functioning autistic). It means that to the untrained eye, I'll appear pretty normal or neurotypical, just like the majority of the population. If you want to get to know me, then you need to be aware I'm not like most people you'll have encountered. I'd suggest that you do your research, and understand that someone with AS sometimes won't react or communicate with you how you'd might expect or hope. That doesn't mean I'm not capable of being emotional, loving, supportive or committed to a relationship (I can be). But it does mean I'll process things differently to how you probably do and that might cause confusion or misunderstandings. Asperger's isn't a defect; it's just a difference. Those differences confer both strengths and also weaknesses, just like anyone else has. The difference is how my brain is "wired" compared to an NT (neurotypical). It's something that I'm unable to change/cure but I can work on diminishing its' effects on my life and relationships. My Asperger's doesn't define who I am but it can mean my relationships can be more challenging to navigate. Open, clear and frequent communication is the key to building strong, deep, loving, safe and respectful relationships and crucial in keeping an AS partner feeling loved, wanted and appreciated by their NT partner. I hope that my honesty in revealing this difference hasn't turned you off, but if it's made you re-consider making contact, I can understand your hesitation and respect whatever you decide to do. But if, after reading everything above and having read a little bit about AS, you're still interested in making an acquaintance, a friend, a walking/cycling buddy, or maybe something a bit deeper, let me know. Let's be open to invitations extended, and treat each other with mutual respect, honesty, patience and compassion. Be a little brave, a little bold and take a chance. As I type this profile, I'm listening to Shane Howard "Flesh & Blood" on repeat: "If we leave here today We could be a thousand miles away Take to that road see how far it goes Homeward bound we could go That country′s in our bones All the trouble that you know Empties out as you go Oh come on walk with me, talk with me, Tell me your stories I'll do my best to understand you You′re flesh and blood, flesh and blood Don't refuse me your love More than words can express More than wealth or success Oh there's a thousand things to do So let′s start here with me and you All the pain that you feel All the hurt that seems so real Oh come on walk with me, talk with me, Tell me your stories I′ll do my very best to understand you You're flesh and blood You can′t go on holding back The flooding river Keeping all that fear inside I understand how trouble haunts you Yes and I do know how you feel There's a thousand things to do So let′s start here with me and you Gonna take a little time Let's see what we can find Oh come on walk with me..." The lyrics speak to building trust, partnership, understanding, compassion, tolerance and enduring love through the journey of a shared life. If you'll give me the chance, I'll do my very best to understand you, and acknowledge that you're only flesh and blood too. May our God bless your search and wrap you up in His love, peace, joy and perfection. less Seeking ATTENTION!: PLEASE READ BEFORE ATTEMPTING TO MESSAGE ME Due to several recent unpleasant experiences with scammers here, these are my rules that I operate to: 1. If your profile contains only the bare minimum of information and a single photo, I will not reply to any messages. 2. If your profile contains no profile photos and/or none/the bare minimum of information, I will not reply to any messages 3. If your profile image shows up on a reverse image search, I will not reply to any messages and you will be blocked/reported to the site administration. 4. If you try to suggest transferring the conversation almost immediately to another communication platform, I will end communication and you will be blocked. My preference is to start our chat here initially and get to know you a little better before we think about opening a conversation on on that platform etc. 5. If you immediately suggest that I should delete my profile based on a single, brief conversation, and claim that "I'm the love of your life" or "I'm the one you've been waiting for forever" etc, I will end the communication and you will be blocked/reported to the site administration. 6. If you decline to engage in a live video call after moving our conversation to another communication platform, I will end the conversation and you will blocked on that platform. The same goes if you keep telling me that you've damaged your phone/iPad etc and that the camera isn't working or you don't have a webcam or you ask for money to have your device repaired. 7. If you ask any questions related to my financial position, assets or income, I will end the communication and you will be blocked/reported to the site administration. 8. If you attempt to ask for any money, gift cards, wire transfers, or any other type of transaction, I will end the communication/block you and report you to the site administration. 9. My preference is to engage with people how have verified their profile using some kind of photo id. If you'd rather not upload such information, I can understand totally. As an alternative, buy a copy of your local newspaper for the city/area your profile states you're located in and take a selfie in front of a full length mirror, clearly showing the front page and the date of publication. I am prepared to do exactly the same in order to confirm my location and that my selfie matches with the photos posted on my profile. Please understand, I don't mean to imply that you are in any way not genuinely seeking a serious partner or aren't being honest in your profile. I've adopted these rules to protect myself and give a degree of confidence and assurance to both of us that the contact is genuine and it helps to establish a degree of trust between us. Of course, I agree to be bound and operate under these same rules. If you're okay with this approach. then please read on and make contact if you like what you've read! __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ The qualities of my future wife are grounded in and flow out from her deep faith in and love for God. She would be compassionate, concerned for others in need or distress and incredibly loving toward her family and her partner. She will be smart, curious about the world and open to learning new things, new ideas and want to explore her limits and the world. She'll be hardworking, leading with creativity and be highly competent in her work. She'll be honest in her actions, speech and intentions, and will expect the same in return. She will value honor, wisdom and truth in everything she does and how she acts toward others. She will be confident in her own beauty, and know that it is more than what can be seen on the outside. She will love deeply, protect her loved ones fiercely and will love herself as she is and never attempt to be anyone she isn't. She loves to laugh, with others and also at herself. She doesn't take herself too seriously. She wants to be part of a partnership where she's cherished and protected, encouraged and nurtured, and free to share her problems, concerns, needs, desires, dreams and hopes. She'll able to communicate openly and work through any issues that arise in her marriage without being defensive, working with her husband to find solutions.
Jared
25 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 37
Chuck Williams
55 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 80
Tyler
30 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Curtis
38 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Wyatt
25 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 36
Todd
53 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 49
Clay
60 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 62
Charles
70 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 75
Rico
43 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 41
Keith
61 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
david
58 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 47
Mell
42 Fort Wayne, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 41

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