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Tim
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 34
Another nice guy looking for a smart princess.
Calm and collected, happy, outgoing and friendly. Former basketball player, and still pay recreationally. I can be funny in different ways, good company, supportive, protective. All around fun to be with.
Robert
44 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 30
Looking For My Best Friend
Loves a joke around all the time, artist, Loves movies and also Likes to go to the gym 5 days a week,And loves Japanese Anime, And all other arts from different types of other cultures, Loving and Caring person Towards others. Looking for somebody to marry And settle down with.
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Ron
46 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
Im here. No scammers because I will report you
I’m the type who notices details most people miss whether it’s a hidden story in an old photo or the way someone laughs before a smile. I’ve lived a few lives already a teacher, a builder, a creator and now I’m just looking for something real enough
Ian
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 44
Looking to build lasting long term relationship.
I am a mellow, easy going guy. I like to travel, I've been to Spain, France and Mexico. I love to exercise, go to the beach, hike, go out to dinner and the movies, learn new things and spend time with family. I work in oil and gas exploration and production here in the U.S. I work 20 days on, then 10 days off.
Antonio
41 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 43
Escríbeme al Insta @antoniojr.co
Down to earth masculine gentleman with an abundance mindset. Educated, playful, and passionate about life in general. I love designing brands and being active. I’m also a musician and the arts have a special place in my heart. Confident, loving, and kind leader. [at]tonesofcolorinmotion
Marcelo
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 52
Busco alguien con valores del lado tradicional
Tengo 51. Trato de cuidarme. (fotos recientes). Busco alguien que quiera familia, que este en una etapa de su vida donde tiene claridad de lo que quiere, y esto, sea congruente con su vida. Tengo muchos hobbies, principalmente la vela (yates), seguido por el surf, motos, tiro con arco, y buscar objetos arqueológicos. Viajo seguido, principalmente a Europa, pero tengo muchos lugares por conocer, como Tanzanía. Espero te guste viajar. Referente a econocmia, soy empresario, vivo en San Diego, CA, y mis negocios estan en Mexico.
Touche'
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 39
Positivity
Me gustaría conocer una mujer latina llena de vida. Se enorgullece, le gusta viajar, probar cosas nuevas. Ama la vida, la familia, la cultura. Me gusta una mujer a la que le gusta pasar tiempo con su hombre y no quedarse en casa todo el tiempo. No soy el tipo de hombre que deja a mi esposa en casa y ella sale con mis amigos y la deja en casa. Prefiero pasar tiempo con la mujer que amo haciendo cosas que nos gustan juntos que correr con mis amigos sin ella. Me gusta una mujer que cree que los sueños se hacen realidad si los haces realidad. I am looking to meet a Latina woman for a serious relationship leading to marriage and family. A little about me I am quite difficult to describe in a short paragraph. I am a calm person, very passionate and affectionate. I am a very confident man with a playful personality. I also find it easy to talk to people. I love life, family, art, culture and the good things in life and the little things too! I am a very positive person. I like spending time with the woman I love. Good dinners together, cooking for each other at home, yes I can cook. I like to take her shopping, relax together at home. To stay in shape I try to eat a healthy diet and exercise 4 days a week.
Andre
46 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 50
A Different Kind
Hello I’m Andre, a well groomed, good smelling guy that’s cool, fun and loves to laugh. I have 4 sisters, love my mom and I know how to treat my lady. I do believe in Jesus Christ and this is important to me. I live in San Diego, Ca. And I workout/run, to stay in shape. I can cook really well my Bbq is good. I am on here because I absolutely Am ready to settle and have a family. I had a good relationship until it wasn’t. So now it’s a yr later and I’m looking to find a sweetie that is ready for whatever blossoms. I am not on here to play games but to find happiness, lol.
Willie H
46 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 60
Hello
Name is Willie but I usually go by William or Junior. I'm African-American/Caucasian living in San Diego, Ca. I two daughters and my youngest is half filipina!! 🇸🇽 I'm friendly, courteous, respectful, romantic, athletic, funny, devoted, family oriented. You can find me on social media or here for more info & pictures.
Jameel
48 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
Looking for love
My friends describe me as honest and trustworthy. I am open minded and down to earth laid back and easy going, I enjoy the outdoors and nature, hiking and camping, movies, music, prayer and meditation. I am a bit old fashioned in that I like romantic experiences like taking walks holding hands, buying flowers and I love a good conversation.
Rey
41 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 43
A gentleman. Need a sexy but nice lady
I’m a genuine, blue collar, hard working father of 1. My son is 10 yo. I’m a sports guy. I love exotic women. I need to have more kids. I wanna have a big happy family. I have only one 10 year old son for now. I’m a romantic with a high s*x drive but no weird stuff. I’m an exceptional lover. I need a s*xual woman to keep up with me but respectable. I like exclusive and I know how to keep a woman happy… Also, I can’t be played cuz I’m from the hood 😉 so no scammers. Don’t even waste your time
John
48 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 42
Never been to the Philippines thought I would try.
I live in San Diego California. I am single never married. Have been close but issues always came up. Not afraid of committing with the right girl. I don’t usually do website like this but I thought it is worth a shot. I’m here hopefully to find the one for me. I’m willing to take it slow and get to know each other. I want to mace sure we are compatible, and enjoy each other company. I’m not here just to pass time or have fun. I want a deep partnership which we compliment each other’s strength.if you feel we might connect please message me I’m easy to talk to.
Mohamed
48 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Any real profile here?
There’s something timeless and beautiful about the way love takes root—not in grand gestures, but in quiet, meaningful moments. In the way your eyes meet mine and the world softens around us. In the laughter that flows so easily between us. In the comfort of a shared silence that needs no explanation. Love, to me, is not just passion or desire—though those are alive and electric when I’m near you. Love is more than a spark; it’s a flame we keep lit together. It’s waking up and choosing each other, again and again. It’s growing not just closer, but deeper, into something that anchors both of us. Romance isn't just flowers or candlelight—though you deserve those, always. It’s the way I remember how you take your tea. It’s the warmth in your voice when you say my name. It’s the way your hand fits in mine like we were crafted to belong there. It’s wanting to make you feel seen, cherished, and safe—every single day. Intimacy is when I no longer need to explain myself, because you already understand. It’s in shared vulnerability, in truth spoken without fear. It’s knowing that I can show you the parts of me I’ve kept hidden, and you’ll hold them with care—not as weaknesses, but as proof that I trust you. It’s in the closeness that isn’t always physical, but always real. The kind of closeness that says, "I know you. I see you. And I still want all of you." And companionship—it’s the soul of it all. It's knowing you're not walking through life alone. It's laughing at stupid things together, lifting each other up when the days are heavy, and being the calm in each other’s storm. It's being not just lovers, but best friends. It’s building a life together—not perfect, but true. A life of shared mornings and whispered dreams, of ordinary days that feel extraordinary just because we’re in them together. With you, I don’t just feel love—I feel home. A place where I can be myself and still be enough. A place where joy is multiplied and burdens are halved. A place where time slows, hearts open, and everything feels possible. So this is what I want you to know: I’m not here for a fleeting chapter. I’m here to help write the whole story. With you, I want love that is patient, romance that is real, intimacy that is fearless, and companionship that lasts—through every season, every sunset, every quiet night. Because with you, everything begins to feel like exactly where I’m meant to be.
William
47 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33
A Gentleman and a Scholar
Basically I love life and I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, traveling, restaurants, laughing, goIng to cultural events, and socializing with quality people. Its just better living and sharing life with someone else 🙂 I'm old fashioned to a certain degree.I enjoy being active, healthy and staying fit. Family and friends Are important to me as well. If you’d like to know more say “hi”. I didn’t reveal a lot about my self for you to read on purpose. Rather we chat, talk, engage in conversation to get to know each other instead of us reading through a long page in this section about each other. Also, just because someone looks like a good match “on paper”, doesn’t necessarilY translate in reality.
Thomas
49 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 49 - 65
Your search ends here.
I'm that classic hard-working but easy-going kinda guy and a proud single father to a wonderful teenage princess. My day to day can get pretty busy, but in my me-time, you'll find me going for morning jogs or on the tennis court exhausting my energy. Now, if you're up for a game of cards, I'm your guy - any time, any day! There's also the soothing end to my days, I do play the piano sometime, In spite of the day's ups and downs, it always brings a kind of tranquility.
Eric
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 47
looking for A Funny Sweet and Sarcastic Woman.
Hello my name is Eric I grew up on the east coast in CT and FL but have been in SD for a while now. I enjoy all kinds of music except maybe hard core metal. I would say 90s R & B and 80s rock are my favorite kinds of music though. Movie wise I enjoy horror, comedy, sci-fi, action, some drama. Im not into the club scene id rather roast over an open fire at the beach lol. Overall Im a very sweet loving, caring, honest, funny, Sarcastic and witty guy with a good teddy bear figure :-) What I'm In Search Of... I am looking for one that has a great personality, sweet, honest, respectful, loving but most important a great sense of humor. Without that then relationships can be pretty boring.
Harry
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 60
I am 60 years old
Soy profesor de inglés en una universidad. Quiero una mujer a la que le gusta leer para conversaciones interesantes. Tengo 60 años Let me be crystal clear—I’m not here to send money to anyone, or give free English lessons either—I want a partner who will live here in the U.S. Also, if you have dependent children, we will not be a good match either—I am close to retirement, and I want a woman who’s ready to have fun.
bassem
41 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 39
La simplicité fait la beauté
... I'm someone that is easy to like and get along with.I respect people that respect themselves and I take people serious that take themselves serious. bacemadil sky p I'm also open-minded to a certain extent and Always see the positive things on everything.
John
47 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female
Read the profile and write something meaningful
I'm always learning. I am didactic and love learning about things that interest me. Always on the move either hiking, swimming, or something to that degree. When I'm taking it easy like reading, writing, or watching movies. Anything that will clear my head and quiet down the noise of the world. It really depends on the mood I'm in. I have to say I'm an introvert. Which means I get misunderstood a lot. People take me as being shy or rude, but I'm not. I believe that we make too much noise and that if we took the time to listen to each other. A lot of misunderstands could be averted. I like to be at peace. Recently I have taken a more serious approach to my health. So I have been doing Yoga and eating healthier. That has been a struggle simply because I LOVE junk food, but I do feel great and am motivated to stay on track. It would be nice to find someone that has a similar goal. There's more of course, but that is a little slice of me. Ask anything I'm an open book.
Anton Lucas
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 90
jacksonjohn
43 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Ask me
Ask me
Wadnel
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 99
Gladys
49 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Male 33 - 52
The main things for me are honesty, respect and tr...
Many women say that happiness requires a lot of money Smile , attention. But I grew up in a small village where there are no expensive cars and cool restaurants, and I know for sure that happiness is not in gifts and money. Happiness is to dream and share one life in two.
Jose
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 70
Jason
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 50
Lover of life
Pleasure to all women
Robert
47 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Rodriguez Chavez
41 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 80
Renand
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Male 27 - 49
Well my name is Renand Lawrence I'm from Miami I work with the USA Army, I'm presently here in Syria over 2 years now.
exclusive
41 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
exclusive to a non-exclusive wife
exclusive to a non-exclusive wife
Adk
47 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 46
God is the greatest
Humble
Marco
46 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Buscando a mi princesa...
Soy una persona amable y descomplicada. - me gusta cantar, escribir, estar entre familia y amigos.
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Parker
49 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: 35 - 55
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Jonathan kelk
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 99
Construction
Life is what you construct it to be
Brandon
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Dan Walker
45 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 47 - 50

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