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Hoka
43 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female
🌹Dear Ladies ; The Love Eyes and The Queen of Heart and Soul in life…We may have different religions, different languages, different colored skin, But we all belong to one human race… Be careful who you give your heart to…Because when you give your heart to someone, you also give them the power to hurt you… As l look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being REJECTED from something good, I was actually being RE-DIRECTED to something better…Patience always pays… Welcome to my family profile ; I would like to introduce myself, My name is Hoka 42 years old of age, From Canada and I live in Montreal city…Am delighted to meet you here…I've always learned from my life being a man who helps others ... Being always helpful in my life… And being the best version of myself with everyone in life… Am here to make you melt your hearts with the warmth of my words and my actions…By the way I hate hypocrisy and lies... To know me better : I consider myself as a real faithful Warrior and leader of love and family with a leadership qualities, provider, protector and an organized family oriented man with a good sense of humour and good and strong personality…Am a very well educated, single, simple, sympathetic, romantic, honest and loyal alive man on earth, never been married, without any charges, who knows what he wants in life and who have ambition and who have a positive outlook on life and the future, Am also very respectful man and especially towards ladies and singles moms, but I prefer to show by actions not with words only… I think that it should be demonstrated with deeds and not with words… Am here to meet new friends, to get to know each other and to learn the new things from each other, we should always learn about anything, we will be able to discover new things that exist in life that will be able to change our life for the better forever without any fear, especially from the life and love..love means a lot to me..so let’s break the wall..let's see where life could take us and also what it has in store for us. Let’s build a relationship of respect, endless trust.. Happy reading and have a wonderful trip into my profile… First thing should know ; What others think about you is not important… What you think about yourself means everything… Should always be proud of yourself, never blame yourself for anything or anyone in the world… “Be strong enough to walk away from what isn’t best for you, and be patient enough to wait for the blessings you deserve”…Patience always pays… You will never speak to anyone more than you speak to yourself in your head, be kind to yourself… Remember, living ALONE is really better than living with FAKE people, who hate you but act like LOVING you… "Love is like a bird free to go everywhere, the whole sky is its freedom. You can catch the bird, you can put it in a beautiful golden cage, and you would think it is the same bird as the one that flew in freedom and who had the sky all to him. It is only the same bird in appearance, it is not him, you killed him. You cut off his wings, took his sky from him. And the birds don't care about your gold: as precious as it is, your cage is a prison. "In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you and some will teach you. But the ones Who are truly Important are the ones Who bring Out the best In you. They are the rare and amazing People who remind you why it’s worth it.. "There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad, and focus on the good. Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who don't. Life is too short to be anything but happy. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living." Being alive is a gift, being happy is by choice, and that's the choice I made and I've never looked back. "If it was up to me I would forbid the swiping of the autumn leaves onto the streets, because remind me of the people in our life so much. Because it's full with leaves- people around us - sprouting in your life, you get to know them and they dissappear in the urban chaos afterwards. There are people who are like the naked trees - they stay close to you - no matter the conditions - no matter the seasons of life." You shouldn't be upset about being alone, when it's your choice! You've seen your surroundings well, you've all around you, and you've come to the conclusion that these people can't fill the gaps in you with them. It was you who realized you felt more alone with them being there. It's not that kind of lonely. I will tell you with complete confidence that you are a very strong human being, very strong! As much as all your loneliness. You should always be proud of yourself, never blame yourself for anything or anyone in the world. Sometimes ; No matter how nice you are, how kind you are, how caring you are, how loving you are, it just isn’t enough for some people…when you die people cry and beg for you to come back, but sometimes when you’re here, they don’t even show they care about you…We should let our actions speak louder than words…Remember, Anyone can say they care…But watch their actions, not their words…The way you treat people says a lot about who you are. Be careful, Your actions are screaming over your words…Never look down on someone unless you’re helping them up”..if you don’t wanna help them up, that’s fine, but never blame them or hurt them either..Respect your self now..Respect the others later.. 10 Important Life Lessons to Learn Early on in Life 1. Money Will Never Solve Your Real Problems Am not impressed by money, social status or job title. Am impressed by way someone treats other human beings… Money is a tool; a commodity that buys you necessities and some nice “wants,” but it is not the panacea to your problems. “There are a great many people who are living on very little, yet have wonderfully full and happy lives… and there are sadly a great many people are living on quite a lot, yet have terribly miserable lives”. “Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some creature comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness, and the “happiness” it brings is only fleeting and not the kind that really and truly matters. Happiness is not for sale. If you’re expecting the “stuff” you can buy to “make it better,” you will never be happy”. 2. Pace Yourself “Often when we’re young, just beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out our life’s purpose, and do it all at the same time”. “Slow down—don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation. Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit. Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by. 3. You Can’t Please Everyone You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside. Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values. This is What You Need to Do to Stop Being a People Pleaser. 4. Your Health Is Your Most Valuable Asset Health is an invaluable treasure—always appreciate, nurture, and protect it. Good health is often wasted on the young before they have a chance to appreciate it for what it’s worth. We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to. Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health now, or you’ll regret it later on. 5. You Don’t Always Get What You Want No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s okay. We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction. 6. It’s Not All About You You are not the epicenter of the universe. It’s very difficult to view the world from a perspective outside of your own, since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want? It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective. 7. There’s No Shame in Not Knowing No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection. We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life. Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable. 8. Love Is More Than a Feeling; It’s a Choice That burst of initial exhilaration, pulse quickening love and passion does not last long. But that doesn’t mean long-lasting love is not possible. Love is not just a feeling; it’s a choice that you make every day. We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful. Relationships take work. Sometimes it’s easy and sometimes it’s incredibly hard. It is up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship. 9. Perspective Is a Beautiful Thing Typically, when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. Everything that is happening in our lives seems so big, so important, so do or die, but in the grand picture, this single hiccup often means next to nothing. The fight we’re having, the job we didn’t get, the real or imagined slight, the unexpected need to shift course, the thing we wanted, but didn’t get. Most of it won’t matter 20, 30, 40 years from now. It’s hard to see long term when all you know is short term, but unless it’s life-threatening, let it go, and move on. This is Why Your Perception Is Your Reality. 10. Don’t Take Anything for Granted We often don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone: that includes your health, your family and friends, your job, the money you have or think you will have tomorrow. When you’re young, it seems that your parents will always be there, but they won’t. You think you have plenty of time to get back in touch with your old friends or spend time with new ones, but you don’t. You have the money to spend, or you think you’ll have it next month, but you might not. Nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love. This is a hard life lesson to learn, but it may be the most important of all: Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it. The life is only one! There isn't a second episode! Be happy! How many lives do we live in this life, that we throw it around onto the sands of our ego or our fear? Why do we hide the truth even from ourselves? I don't have enough time to be someone else. I don't have a lifetime.... Nobody has a whole life in front of them. There are people who never stop loving each other. Simply because what binds them is stronger than what divides them… Everything will be beautiful one day, perhaps not today, or tomorrow, but surely one day. Patience always pays… A pure smile can transform a day..a life..simple but magnificent… Thank you all for visiting my profile, what you read in my profile is in my nature and as well as my experiences that I have had in life, and by the way, I am not a writer or trainer either. Best regards,
JR
48 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 27 - 54
HI, my name is JR, I’m looking for the love of my life and future wife PLEASE read my entire profile before sending message or sending me interest, thank you :) Here’s what I’m looking for : *I want to find the love of my life, I’m here for a serious relationship and not to play games *I’m looking for my future wife, I want to marry if I find the right person, so I need someone who want same if she find her Mr. Right *I'm ready to move abroad for the right person, and moving back to Japan is really among my options. *I want someone romantic and passionate, just as I am *I want that person to be not only my love, but also my best friend, partner in crime, soulmate, confident, and life partner I’m a romantic and passionate man, love is my everything I might not be rich but I always work hard for the one I love, and I expect my partner to do same for us, together, nothing can stop us! I’m protective and I always care for the one I love, and it’s my job to do all I can to make her feel good at any moment Be my Queen and let me be your King! If you are looking for the same as me and feel ready for it, let’s talk and see if we can be a good match! If you want something different, I will wish you good luck! So here’s more about me : I’m an artistic director and editorial portrait photographer, born in Canada, I lived in Japan, Taiwan, Peru, New York and Paris I’m 44 (soon 45) and divorced for a few years. I’m 178cm, blue eyes and light brown hairs. I travelled the world (43 countries), but it's time for me to settle down and find my life partner and future wife. I want to find my life partner, my soulmate, my best friend and my future wife all in one person, and I need someone who believe in love as much as I do! I'm a loyal and faithful person, reliable, calm, funny, open mind, respectful, I have a good temper and don’t like to fight, I’m open to new cultures and honest. There is many scammer and con artist on such website, but be sure, I’m really not here to ask anything! I know some people said in the past I was a bad boy, and that’s not totally false. Yes I do have somehow a bad boy attitude, maybe because I don’t always follow the rules, true, maybe because I have a bit of a rock n’ roll attitude since I used to play guitar in a rock band, true as well, Also true that long ago I was seen by some people as a playboy, and that part isn’t true, this is simply because I used to work in fashion long ago and was meeting lot of models for work, but I’m really not a playboy, I know I always been loyal and faithful and really don’t care what people may say about me! I'm a very creative person and I'm interested in every form of arts. I speak french and english, and a little bit Japanese. I love cinema, music (I play guitar) photography, painting, sculpting, karaoke (even if I'm a very bad singer) , traveling, trying new foods and new restaurants and more important, spending time with the one I love. People say my personality is a mix of European, Canadian and Asian culture. If you want to learn more about me, send me a message!
Zaz
43 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
First I want to apologize to my black sisters, I had sooo many bad experiences with you guys lol (scamers, fake account, thiefs, etc.) so I prefer to stay away plus I'm not very interested in black woman. Don't mean I hate you. That being said, I'm here because I'm loaning for someone to chat with and if the feeling is good, I would like to be able to travel with her and meet somewhere, in neutral place where we can discover this wonderful destination together. I am a headhunter so my job is to interview people all day long so I know how the game works and will know fast enough if you are serious, with good itentions or just here to want my time. On this site, 8 girls out of 10 are fake and scamers so im very suspicious.I don't know on your side but on me's one, its crazy the amount of make person we meet. IM a funny, simple and easy going person. So if you are real too and have good intentions, feel free to chat with me. IM very sociable person and always ready for a good laugh. And by the way, I'm not closed to a relationship. Destiny will write this story and I'm ready to be a part of it. Are you? Religion: Must be modern, I like spiritual and Equilibrate people. If you cannot missed a week without going to church, that is too much already. No. restrictions, obligations and no bonds. Mothers: Geez I like all mum but if you are one of them, I would have suggest you to wait for me but I guess its too late lol. I love kids and im very good with them. If you have some (lucky you) they have to be old so you can see the goal that we are chasing. Thats sums it prety much. Now lets have fun and chat see where it lead us to!
DK
47 Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 29 - 43

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